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 Students interpersonal and communication skills
our team needed, the staff decided to adjust the bedroom, we get along with roommates for a year as proof for all you are learning,bailey UGG boots, growing university students, Interpersonal Communication is one of the basic elements of life. classmates, teachers and students, between teachers and friends, individual and collective, and other complex social interactions, students form the network of interpersonal communication.
one, good interpersonal and The ability to communicate with students the importance of growth and development of interpersonal and communication
is a science. It the formation and development of college students is important.
(a) of the atmosphere and harmonious interpersonal is the basis for students to complete their studies.
society is not abstract, steal the same, but by the specific interaction between people and their weaving from the college students, with the surrounding students, faculty exchanges, communication and harmony, which reduce the worry for their own , psychosomatic happy to concentrate on learning, the successful completion of their studies and create a good atmosphere for learning and living.
(b) Good interpersonal and communication skills are conducive to fostering the psychological health of college students.
United Nations World Health Organization Health is defined as: , mental health problems of the past, people did not attract enough attention, in the loneliness of college students, inferiority, or like to live a lonely life, often not from a psychological point of view to understand the problem of unhealthy. A mental health is a happy man meet, both are willing to express their emotions, but also readily accept other people's behaviors, the students around easily maintain a harmonious relationship between the exchanges, and solitude, like loneliness, Luanli friends, contacts are often reluctant to not a mental health persons. In this sense, communication is the human to maintain an important guarantee for mental health. As people have feelings of animals, the human emotional experience often determine the psychological state, emotional state and most of the trapped manifested in interpersonal relationships. people need to interact, when a person will have a sense of belonging to group a sense of security, will eliminate loneliness, the formation of a pleasant emotional experience. Students are in the development of self and society of the importance of foreign period, this group is very important to obtain a sense. and get a sense of community need good interpersonal and communication to achieve mutual understanding, understanding and recognition. Therefore, the psychological health of college students who need good interpersonal and communication.
(c) Good interpersonal and communication skills are essential for college students the quality of future success.
a person successful in business are many factors, including good interpersonal communication is a prerequisite can not be ignored. Because interpersonal growth of talent and learning of young people, open mind; to adapt to social and accurate positioning; self-understanding, self-improvement; coordination, effective way to overcome difficulties, and these young people is an indispensable element to success. And a place like you Weipei Survivors face the problem of your own work, in the future to integrate into society = open business there. especially in the market economy under the impact of social competition, if you prepare the layout of interpersonal skills, the future can not gain a firm foothold in the community.
(d) Good interpersonal and communication skills will help students happy family life and the future.
only good at associating with others, in order to understand others, but also to understand in order to have communication, dealing with all sorts of relations. in the near future, you will all have their own small family, happy family life is, in a sense, but also on your own interpersonal and communication skills.
Second, college students in the interpersonal and Problems of communication in the university study
life, the subjective and objective reasons, some of them often have poor interpersonal and communication situation, affect their physical and mental health and learning progress.
( a) Students in the interpersonal communication problems with the type of
1, self-centered. in dealings with others, consider others. when dealing with others, regardless of occasions, without regard to the sentiments of others, their happy,UGG boots cheap, to talk, enraptured, dancing; not happy to unhappy, no one to ignore, or tantrums, do not respect for others, ignore the plight and interests of others.
2, self-closed. This type has two cases, one is not willing to let others know themselves, always like to put his true thoughts, feelings and needs of the carpet often the attitude of holding an aloof attitude of life, only to focus on their inner experience, to artificially create a psychological barrier, it deliberately self-enclosed; the other is the willingness to interact with others, but the character of reasons can not let other people understand ourselves. Such people usually introverted withdrawn, forming a self-closed state. In our team there are also students like, like a loner who does not like contact with others, do anything a man difficult integration into a large collective, to produce a situation of disharmony rubbish.
3, utilitarian society. any person in the contact process has the purpose of one kind or another,UGG shoes, the idea has been to improve themselves through communication and progress of the desire, these are good. But if too many personal contacts powerhouse wish to consider, whether the benefits can be achieved and reached, the likelihood of achieving such, it is easy money worship, utilitarian and other errors thinking of corrosion to draw, so that personal contacts and a strong utilitarian take. In our student teams, there are also some of the trainees to the prevailing market economy, La twitched, Chuichuipaipai to achieve personal goals; or to their similar problems, for the unit's work in this area try to complete the team, but in other unit area teams have a difficult time not want to hand some help, I hope to host unit, the district team to become the brightest spot.
4, suspicion and jealousy type . Caiyi psychology in the exchanges, the general performance 是, in a Jiaxiang target 为 starting point for Fengbi thinking, of people lack Xinren, random suspicion, that wind is the rain, it is easy hint. Caiyi yes Harmony of Interpersonal Relationships borers. In addition, Psychology, believes that any person has different degrees of jealousy, which is common, some jealousy, can stimulate the enthusiasm of people to make progress. And once this jealousy will go in the opposite limit, of normal among people relationship. in our dealings jealousy usually mainly for the achievements of others, progress not recognize or even belittle; their results achieved to obtain the honor to be complacent, but at the same anxiety over embankment on the other, fear of others catch up; some even resent others doing so. jealousy, envy is the yin, jealousy is that it can, which is called will produce die psychology, what he can not, others have been not even think about. own unsuccessful, others can never expect to succeed. to sit here, we are all narrow winding path through the crowded entrance of this lucky, smooth sailing sense of superiority, natural breeding. but into the university campus is not the case, who gathered together an excellent high school, some students can not remain outstanding, the loss of academic supremacy, it is prone to jealous. luckier ones appear introverted, avoid, severe mental delusions, suicide or crime.
5, Brotherhood type. Some students interested in fraternal loyalty, the so-called arena heroes, righteous idolatry to vote in, and the other participants call each other brothers, sworn brothers, pipe It is what military discipline, law of the land, the collective interest, through anything at all for the man, a great heroic spirit of the brave demeanor. In fact, this is a contamination of the revolutionary comradeship, it is a product of feudal society, is to protect individuals and small sectarian groups, organizations gain awareness of the revolutionary principles and the friendship between comrades is essentially different. in the usual exchanges, we must not engage in small group, small group, should adhere to the unity and cooperation, and treasure the friendship between each other, so as to do selfishness is the first disaster. university students like you are now basically have only one child. parents are a breeding ground. As you count, such as college campuses, independent collective life, get along with classmates, some students develop early age of The lack of education of China's current stage still in the exam-oriented education, the negative effects of examination-oriented education that some parents,cheap UGG boots, students, teachers more concerned about test scores of students. but can not ignore the scores to measure the intrinsic quality of the training , of which to include interpersonal and communication skills that as a society must possess the following qualities.
3, the negative impact of the market economy. the market economy, while moving the country's economic and social development and progress, and the other also contributed to the expansion of a number of utilitarian thinking, this ideology has affected the philosophy students life skills and behavior.
three college students how to improve interpersonal and communication skills
good interpersonal and communication skills than with Students all come, it needs to learn the practice of social interaction, exercise and improve. But like other matters, like, communication principles. Only by following the principle of the right contacts in order to establish harmonious interpersonal relationships, we can not control the exchanges and create better interpersonal communication arts.